Finally I have good news after all the bad news I had lately. All my friends were not around for me to share, that’s a pity. However I managed to share it with someone which now I regret that I have told him. First upon hearing the news, he simply didn’t say anything. After I asked him why he didn’t, he said it is not good enough for him. Very disappointed!!
Anyway, was having a conversation with my best friend the other day, I was pouring out my disappointment of my closest colleague in the office. We agreed that we always disappointed because we put on hope on the person. The closer you are to someone, we tend to put higher and higher hope on him/her. Even the smallest ‘mistake’ he/she did, will have a big impact, our disappointment will be more than if other person who is not close to us, did the same thing. The thing is, it is human nature, so we are unable to change it the way we want it to be.
I think it is only natural that we get upset more often to our closest persons like family, best friends, good friends, because we take them seriously, listen to what they say, their words carry meanings to us. However, I also know that it is not good to get upset to those dearest to us. What can we do?? Well… sometimes we have to try our best to ignore them, not really ignore 100%, but just accept and let go. That will surely make our life easier. Hence it is what I called ‘theory’, to apply it, will be very difficult. Just give our best, Just Do It!!
Well, not so happy already about the good news, trying very hard to let it go…. Have a great weekend ahead friends
